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Do not forget that accepting an invitation to a prom also represents a personal financial commitment.You are responsible for your grooming costs and purchasing or renting the prom wear.

■Prom Wear

You should get some information before you prepare your dress for the prom.Pick your dress in accordance with the form of your prom.Find out ahead if it is going to be a formal,or semi-formal,or special themed event.Tuxedos for the guys and long formal gowns for the girls should be appropriate if the prom is to be a formal one.When the prom is to be a semi-formal affair,it is proper for the guys to wear coats and ties while the girls being in short dresses.You need to research the theme and choose the appropriate dress when your prom is a themed one.For example,it might be the in-thing choosing the letter jackets for the guys and poodle skirts for the girls with a prom theme of“The 50’s”.

Most boys rent their tuxedo for the formal proms,and a black tux is the standard.Fashion tuxes may come in many colors,but the basic black looks great on everyone is usually the least expensive to rent.Remember that a prom is not a time to make comic statement,and it is not amusing for your date and her parents if you appear at their doorstep with a tuxedo T-shirt or formal black shirt.If you want to be creative and outstanding at your prom,you may consider adding a splash of color with a vest,cummerbund and/or tie,which will also match the color of your date’s dress,or consider wearing a top hat and taking a cane.

Girls need to obtain a formal evening dress for the typical prom.The price of a new prom dress can easily exceed $1500.00.Maybe your parents will afford for it,so sit down with them and take a realistic look at what you are willing and able to spend for a prom dress.Otherwise,there are many resale shops and stores which usually rent prom dresses.It is also a good ideal to borrow a dress from your older sister or other family members.In some western countries,there are also many organizations which can provide prom dresses to the girls who can not afford them.