佚名/Anonymous
Life is not a dress rehearsal, so trying something new for the fun of it can provide a different life for you.
As a coach who works with people in transition, I like to promote the concept that life is one big experiment. Just ask yourself the questions:
What can you do different today that will bring great pleasure in your future?
What aspect of your life do you want to improve?
Tell me about the adventuresome side of your life.
Do you need permission to do something you dream about?
When you were a young child, you experimented with new situations in your life (learning how to walk, ride a bike, climb trees, ride the subway—alone, etc.). As your experiences grew, some become habits that formed the standards that you live by now. Are these standards still useful? Do they need to be traded in on newer, more sensitive standard to your present needs? This is where the experimentation process take effect.
Experimentation does not have to be risky. Experimentation is your personal process where you get to try something new, something that you have been dreaming about, and something that will test out a thought or belief you might have. It can be your secret, and only you will know the results. And with those results, you can either move toward change, or reconsider what your next step will be. Remember, by being a master experimenter, there are no mistakes, just experiments that show promise or not.
生活不是一场时装秀，尝试一些有趣的事情，可以让你感受到不同的生活乐趣。
我是一个私人教练，指导需要转型的人。我认为生活就是一次大实验，试问你自己几个问题：
今天你能做些什么事情来使自己未来的生活更快乐？
你想改善生活的哪一个方面？
告诉我你生活中冒险的一面。
你梦想要做的事需要得到别人的允许吗？
当你小的时候，你会尝试生命中出现的许多新情况（独自学走路、骑车、爬树、乘地铁等）。由于你不断增长的阅历逐渐成为一种习惯，形成了你现在的生存准则。然而，这些准则还适用吗？是否需要提升到新的、更适合现在需求的水平呢？这些需要尝试来实现。