佚名/Anonymous
你是否经历过这样的一天,在这一天里事事不顺不久以前我就有过这么一天,我感到气馁、厌烦,非常悲伤,我满脑子想的都是自己,毕竟没有人经历过我的磨难。
我把我糟糕的心情告诉我的母亲,希望得到她的怜悯,母亲却说:“我听说杰米今天也不高兴,你为什么不做些饼干今天下午带给她呢”我本来不想去做,但是我不愿再去想其他让我心烦的事情,所以我就去做饼干了,把做好的饼干摆在一个小盘里,还做了一个画着太阳的卡片,在上面写了一句安慰的话。那天下午我们去我的朋友家拜访,我去按门铃,很快,杰米出来惊奇地看着我,她没有想到我会来看她。在她开口说话之前,我先说话了:“我听说你今天不高兴,就决定送你些东西,希望你高兴起来。”当时,我无法用语言描述杰米的表情,就好像阴暗的天空突然间被金色的阳光照亮,好像她阴郁的一天因我的拜访而变得充满阳光。
我回到车里惊奇地发现我的心情好多了,那一天我体会到一个真理,詹姆斯巴里这样描述它:“给别人带去阳光的人,自己也会感到温暖。”
Have you ever had a day when everything seemed to go wrong,and nothing seemed to go right?Not too long ago I was having one of those days.I was discouraged,weary,and plain sad.My focus was on me,me,me.After all,no one else was experiencing the same trials as I was.
I expressed my downcast state to my mother,hoping for some pity.Instead,she said,“I heard Jamie was having a difficult day too.Why don’t you make her some cookies and we will take them to her this afternoon?”I didn’t really want to,but decided that I didn’t want to go back to my other problems just yet.I made the cookies and arranged them on a little plate.Then I made a card with a sunflower on it and wrote a small note of empathy.