Asking yourself why you do your job doesn’t mean you’re dissatisfied, just self-aware. This awareness can lead to greater job satisfaction, increased sense of well being and a little more control over what you do, rather than just “going along for the ride.” For some, it may be time for a change—if so, don’t be afraid of it. Change isn’t necessarily bad, it’s just different. For the rest of us, take a look around, you may find you’ve got a great view.
Take a look at your life. How would you describe it? Contented? Rushed? Exciting? Stressful? Moving forward? Holding back? For many of us it’s all of the above at times. There are things we dream of doing one day, there are things we wish we could forget. In the Bible, it says that Jesus came to make all things new. What would your life look like if you could start over with a clean slate?
我们每天都会听到“跳槽”这个词。尽管你有这样的机会,但是一旦所有的改变都实现了,真的会使我们快乐吗?或许问题不在于“我们如何能找到喜欢的工作”,而在于“我们如何爱上目前的工作”。采取下面四个实用的步骤,来确定自己做现在这份工作的原因,花些时间想一想,你就会有惊奇的发现。
1. 要认识到:定义你的不是你的工作,而是你的工作方式。在这里,更多的话题应该说是针对态度,而不是意愿。任何工作只要能做好,就要开心、认真地去做。你的工作态度和为人处世的方式,甚至是你的心情,都不会被人忽视。这些都会给你的同事带来深刻的影响。你往往不能控制你的处境,但你可以选择如何去适应。
2. 不再关注钱。钱永远都不够多,所以不要再用钱(或是缺钱)当做借口。不管每月的15号和30号你带回家的是多少钱,你都会想得到更多的钱,做更多的事情。只要你的钱更多,你想做、能做的事情就越多。试着记下你每周花的每一分钱。看看你的钱到底花在了哪里,这样可以帮助你审视是否确实把钱花在了你想要的东西上。得到报酬只是你工作的一小部分,工作完成的意义远远超过了一张薪水支票。