“I’ll start，” offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it. Enough to fill 3 pages， in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances， she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband’s eyes.
“What’s wrong？” she asked. “Nothing，” the husband replied， “keep reading your list.”
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
“Now， you read your list and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists，” She said happily.
Quietly the husband stated， “I don’t have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don’t want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you.”
The wife， touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her， turned her head and wept.
In life， there are enough times when we are disappointed， depressed and annoyed. We don’t really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty， light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad， disappointing or annoying when we can look around us， and see the wondrous things before us？
一个男人与他的女朋友举行了一场盛大的结婚典礼。
所有的亲朋好友都来参加了他们的婚礼，见证他们的幸福。大家过得很愉快。
身着雪白婚纱的新娘楚楚动人，穿着黑色礼服的新郎英俊潇洒。大家都看得出来，他们彼此相爱。
数月后，妻子提议：“我刚在杂志上看到一篇文章，讲的是如何巩固夫妻感情。”她说：“我们各自在纸上罗列出对方的小缺点，然后一起找出解决的办法，从而使我们的婚姻生活更融洽。”
丈夫很赞成。于是，他们各自在房间里想对方的缺点。那天的余下时间，他们都在想这个问题，同时也把所想到的写了下来。