The people you meet who affect your life， and the success and downfalls you experience， help to create who you are and who you become. Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact， they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you， betrays you， or breaks your heart， forgive them， for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you， love them back unconditionally， not only because they love you， but because in a way， they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can， for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people that you have never talked to before， and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love， break free， and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself， for if you don' t believe in yourself， it will be hard for others to believe in you.
You can make of your life anything your wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely4 no regrets. Most importantly， if you love someone tell him or her， for you never know what tomorrow may have in store.
人们不时走进你的生活，有时你会觉察出，他们是出于某种特定目的：给你一个教训，帮你认清自己或你理想中的自己。你永远不知道这些人是谁（可能是你的室友，邻居，同事，久违的朋友，爱人，甚至完全是一个陌生人）。一旦你开始关注他们，很快便会发现，他们影响了你的生活，而且往往很深刻。
有时，发生在你身上的事情看似可怕、痛苦，或不公平，但细思之后，你会发现，如果没有克服这些障碍，就永远不可能认识到自己的潜力，能力，毅力，或者真实的内心世界。世事皆非出于偶然。疾病，伤痛，爱情，辉煌的成就和彻底的失败，这一切都是检验你灵魂的限度。不论它们以何种方式出现，没有这些细微的考验，生活会如一条平坦笔直的大道，无止境地延伸下去，也许安逸舒适，却枯燥乏味，毫无意义。