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第34章 一生最大的收获 (5)

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Learning to handle obstacles is the best way to stand your ground and succeed. While running away only undermines your self-esteem.

Nature presents you with these challenges in order to learn to weather the storm and grow stronger.

To succeed at overcoming obstacles you need to have the gut not to quit, but to see things through, to have the strong faith to believe more in yourself than in the obstacles and to have the willingness to do what it takes to turn the obstacles around.

This means, you need to stand up to your obstacles and believe you can overcome them. When you attack your obstacles and do something about them, you' ll find that they are not as threatening as they appeared to be at first.

Decide that you will not give up and if something has to give, it will have to be the obstacles and not you.

Standing up to your obstacles imparts you with a sense of accomplishment and reinforces the sense of your inner power. By developing a habit of facing resistance, you instill into your psyche a strong message of endurance and success. This strengthens the faith and the belief in yourself, which helps remind you of the responsibility to yourself.

Sometimes you may have to resort to some other measures to overcome obstacles. If you can' t get through the problem, try going around it, and if you can' t go around it, try getting under it, and if you can' t get under it, try going over it, and if you can' t go over it, just dive straight into it.

回顾一下,在你生命中的某一时刻,你突然灵光一闪,并冲动地想要作出一个重大改变。你会努力争取实现,还是会被内心的障碍阻止了脚步呢?

你的思想和信仰是成功的基础。在泥土和残骸上,你无法建造出一栋结实的房子,成功也是同样的道理。

如果你的思想和信仰摇摇欲坠,如果你不清除内心的障碍,它们就会阻碍你前进。