“Come and see, Jan. Look! I have done it at last! I have done it at last!”
There he was, holding a small box of earth in his hand. I observed three tiny shoots out of it.
“And there were only three!” he said, his eyes laughing to heaven.
“Three what?” I asked.
“Peach stones,” he replied.
“I’ve always wanted to make peach stones grow, ever since I was a child, when I used to take them home after a party, or as a man after a banquet. And I used to plant them, and then forgot where I planted them. But now at last I have done it, and, what’s more, I had only three stones, and there you are, one, two, three shoots,” he counted.
And Sir Henry ran off, calling for his wife to come and see his achievement—his achievement of simplicity.
观察任何一个孩子你都会发现,他每天都能找到一两件令自己开心的事,虽然他可能在下一秒就哭哭啼啼。再观察我们中的任何一个成人,你会发现,数星期或数月过去了,他总是无可奈何地面对每一天的到来,然后以漠然的礼貌方式来忍受。的确,很多人像罪人一样痛苦,虽然他们有太多烦恼,但总不至于去犯罪——或许罪过就在于他们的冷漠。但他们的确很少笑,以至于他们笑的时候,我们都认不出他们的面孔,因为我们已经习惯了那一成不变的严肃表情,这时候反倒觉得他们的脸都扭曲了,而且大人也不能像孩子那样笑,因为孩子笑的时候,眼里满含笑意,而大人们只用嘴唇微笑,这就不是笑了,而只是咧咧嘴;只是幽默,没有快乐。于是,每个人都会发现,当人们变老时(不过谁能说清楚到底是什么时候呢?),他就又会笑了。
快乐似乎就是简单地做事,是一种能从最简单的事物中——比如桃核——提炼出乐趣的能力。
显然,快乐与成功无关。因为亨利·斯图尔特爵士的确已经很成功了。他是个高级律师。20年前,他从伦敦来到我们村,推倒了几栋买来的旧房子,然后建了所大房子,把它作为周末的休憩之所。他那辉煌的业绩,让全村人觉得,与这么一位了不起的人住在一个村子,是几辈子修来的福分。