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Communicating a sense of personal power comes from a belief that you can reach your goals in your own way. Powerful people empower others and encourage others to express themselves openly. You communicate a sense of personal power by developing these traits:
Authority. Authority is inner confidence—a trust in your skills and abilities. It comes from the inside, from an attitude of "I can do that" "I deserve success". This attitude radiates outward as you assert your rights, honestly ask for what you want and need, and develop a willingness to give to others and yourself.
Assertiveness. Assertive behavior is active, direct, and honest. It communicates an impression of self-respect and respect for others. By being assertive, we view our wants, needs, and rights as equal with those of others. An assertive person wins by influencing, listening, and negotiating so that other people choose to cooperate willingly.
Accessibility. The powerful person is a master networker. Good network increases your visibility and gives you a valuable circle of people from whom you can give and receive support and information. Imagine yourself as the hub of a wheel surrounded by spokes of contacts.
Image. Image you communicate power through your image. Do you project an image consistent with strong leadership? Stand tall and walk proudly, remembering that you have value as a person. When you meet others, make direct contact and keep your handshake firm and friendly. Clearly state who you are and what you do.
Communication habits. take a deep breath to project a firm voice. Avoid slang, and jargon, and vocal hesitations that can hinder effective communication. Use only the body movements and gestures necessary to make your point, no more. Learn how to write clearly and succinctly.
展示自己的魅力源自于一种观念——按照自己的方式实现自己的目标。有影响力的人可以带动、鼓舞其他人毫不隐讳地表达自己。你可以通过培养这些特点来展示自己的魅力：