In the Name of Love
爱的体验是一种心理状态。
沉浸在爱里，
你会感到幸福快乐、生气勃勃、自由自在。
自我感觉良好，
生活就会非常美好。
当你把这种爱的体验带进生活时，
生活就会变得轻松自如，
充满喜悦。
婚？姻
On Marriage
卡里？纪伯伦 / Kahlil Gibran
Then Almitra spoke again and said， and what of Marriage， master？
And he answered saying：
You were born together， and together you shall be forever more.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay， you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness，
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you，
Love one another， but make not a bond of love：
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other’ s cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous， but let each one of you be alone，
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts， but not into each other’ s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together：
For the pillars of the temple stand apart，
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’ s shadow.
艾尔梅特拉再度开口问道：大师，和我们谈谈有关婚姻的事，好吗？
于是，他回答道：
你们一同出生，也将长相厮守。
当死神之翼驱散你们的日子时，你们也应在一起。
即使在上帝的记忆中，你们也将始终相守，
但是请在你们彼此的世界中保留一些空间，
好让空中的风在你们之间舞蹈。