Funeral etiquette is a set of guidelines specifically involving funeral and burial rituals. It is important to understand that funeral etiquette varies between religions and cultures, and not a set of rules can govern how to behave at every single funeral around the world. If someone is attending a funeral for a person who comes from a different religious or cultural background, it is advisable to ask some knowledgeable people for advice on how to behave.
Most rules of funeral etiquette are simply common sense. When attending a funeral, wake, memorial, or any ceremony being held to honor the life of someone who has died, you are expected to dress simply and somberly, to greet the mourners, and to behave respectfully. A traditional greeting includes a brief expression of sympathy, sending flowers and cards to mourners.
Funerals serve several purposes. In addition to commemorating the life of the deceased, a funeral offers emotional support to the bereaved and an opportunity for friends and family to pay tribute to their loved one. The process of going through the planning and final disposition helps the family come to terms with the fact that a death has occurred. This is a necessary part of the grieving process. It is common for people to enter a period of denial when a family member or loved one has died.
Friends’ offering fond remembrances are often helpful during this time. Customs for expressing sympathy vary according to religious and ethnic customs. The following information is offered merely as a guideline for what is generally accepted in various circumstances during a funeral.